This is saddening. I'm not exactly active at present, but some of these things were badges to illustrate time, and effort, spent to achieve. Ultimately, it is an RP server, but gear achievements certainly scratch an itch, and gives the happy chemicals.
If this is the tradeoff, consider doing a poll of the player base to see what is preferred, crafting gear at levels prior to the introduction of tailoring, or these proposed changes with tailoring system in-tact.
It may be less heart-ache for players to remove the tailoring system. Probably an amount of people that would upset, but this sort of situation is one that has no winners. Go go gadget trolley dilemma!