Sorry, I just disagree completely.
If you're inclined to get your subrace and then watch people kill things to level then by all means, do that. I've done that on non ecl characters even.
My point is, if you care so much about your character concept that you would accept the ECl, then accept the ECL. I have played with people with ECL's before and they do just fine never doing anything past what we're currently working on. They do lag behind a bit, because they have an ECL - which means they are essentially not lagging behind at all.
If it's so important to you that you get full xp benefit maybe an ECL race just isn't for you. There are plenty of races that don't have them. I don't really see the issue here. You definitely get what you apply for.
Egh.
You don't get what you apply for, because several races have had ECL lowered and characters applied for before these changes all had their ECLs lowered.
I also dislike the 'suffer in the hole you fell in' mentality.
Everyone who plays a drow, plays them despite the hate, Ic -and- ooc, and the ECL truly making them weaker than an elf.
So lets look at something.
Duergar are now only ECL 1.
Tanarukk are now ECL 2... and much better.
Changes from the source material have already been done on the server, and to the ECL races -recently-. And the server is impossible to compare reasonably to PnP. The engine is ancient and limited.
This also hearkens to something that has always bothered me, for a very long time here....
That somehow extra grueling pain OOC hearkens itself to Gothic Horror.
But the topic has drifted a bit.
The OP wasn't 'get rid of ECL'
The OP was, most of them have been looked at/gotten love, except drow. And people feel that way.