You also need to accept that maybe no-one wants to come and retrieve your character's remains.
(savage)
That post was less than 3 hours than your previous one so it's not like people have had a lot of time anyways.
BUT
This was a thread created to discuss, in a broad sense, alternatives to jail time because you perceived jail time as too harsh of a consequence for IC actions, right? So it should be about that, and not a play-by-play of the IC circumstances surrounding your PC. Though I'm with Arawn here, there's not really much more to say. You shared your thoughts, and other people sort of shared
how it is. This really shouldn't become the "My character is still in the charnel house, please take pity on my plight and break me out" thread.