There are two suggestions I have for you then. First you could write down the numbers that correspond to the male and female clothing components until you have a complete list. Alternatively, you could ask for a female PC to help you and even get RP out of it. Just have them wear it and modify it for you. ICly you treat it as if you're making alterations and just give them the coins to finish the crafting. Also, doing it this way lets you craft clothing for people made to their personal liking.