Look, assuming you are actually a new player... You must be at least reasonably intelligent to make all of these observations, compare them at length to the expectations and information posted in all of our own source material, and analyze the differences to formulate into a post.
So, being an individual of reasonable intelligence who has gotten this far - why is it that your major failing has come from wholeheartedly believing that the entirity of a server is ALWAYS going to be , without fail, EXACTLY like the description box says it is. Do you seriously believe that a player base this large will, for hours and hours, days and days, 100% of the time portray fear and terror from their characters? Do you even believe that to be possible? Do you find it reasonable to draw conclusions after only evaluating 1% of the data available to you? (Giant server. Tons of areas and players. You make all your observations based on one map and people who pass through it over 2 days.)
The fact that you seem to have no question about anything else stands out as well. Anyone joining 2 days ago would have played one day, updated the hak, then played a second day.
It would help if you could drop your character name, so people could try and work with you or get you involved in things.