I need to post this because Dobian is taking a lot of the brunt here on her actions the other night. I was the Vampire in question that the op was about.
Let me start with this in front of everything. I spoke to Dobian after the event and understood why she did what her character did and can not fault her for that. I even helped put her in that mindset with my Ghoul Caven.
I also am aware that starting an event in the Inn is not the best choice and I was looking for a DM but none were on, so I knew that if anything was going to require IG "physical actions" we had to move outside as to not "ignore" the npcs. Due to circumstances I was not able to make it outside but that is ok too.
Let it be made clear that I did not feel, "cheated" by what happened, because all of the RP that happened there was done beautifully. I was merely shocked by a few things, which may have been missed by those watching.
At the time of the incident in question I was surrounded, the door was closed and I had about an inch of each finger sinking into the player's neck, not to kill them but to show my character meant business. The first thing I was shocked at was that during this time when this girl is being gripped violently and slowly dying and bleeding to death was that the other characters were more focused on my character than trying to help the girl. I believe that the girl, who did a wonderful job btw, even fell limp and possibly dead once during this and no one took notice, I think I had to shake her awake/alive to bring back the fact that she was in peril.
During my scenes I always try to shift the focus of the rp away from my character and onto the characters involved, letting them make the choices, deciding the options and what the outcomes of the emotes are and what follows afterwards. I do this because I believe that by creating the scene but then allowing the other players evolve it in the direction of their choosing it opens up many paths for each scene to take. A simple hostage situation could turn into a vengeful monster hunt, a barring of doors to prevent future occurences, or perhaps an easy way to get rid of a character that those involved did not like and let the Vampire take them away and eat them. I leave it up to them as best as I can while inserting diverging paths from what they are deciding on to give them more options (whether they are good or bad for me) that the characters could take if they so choosed to.
I will not speak on the seconde thing that shocked me because Dobian and I spoke of it at length and discussed it thoroughly and I came to understand why Tabitha did what she did and have no hard feelings towards her for making those choices. I was merely shocked that my assumptions were wrong and that I had banked on something I thought I could at least use to get outside. So in the end this whole thing was actually my fault and I apologize for any ill will it has caused.
I was wrong to assume, because you know what that does....it gets you slapped in the face by Radu's big F***ing mace when you have to spontaneously cast, "Darkness" to escape a situational-noose you wrapped around your neck.
I disagree partially with increasing the penalties for Raising the Dead, for multple reasons. If this were a, "Hardcore" Diablo server Cohiin would never have made it past her first mink hunting trip (them otters are mean in a pack) where she was killed by lag and persistant otters but then was able to be raised. Being raised is a god-send to new players, who for various reasons may have a hard time living to see lvl 3, whether it be lag, poor judgement, or readjusting to this server from a different one and we should not punish them for it. Well, unless they "really-really" deserver it.
Also in a sidenote though, if raise dead / the fear of no death becomes to much of a, "Get out of Jail Free" problem, know this....
I have no problem roleplaying with bound and chained corpses that I must marionette when it comes time for them to react to me
. Either that or I am just in serious need of professional help that the first psycologist couldn't offer me.
TL;DR = Dobian, in my belief played the scene right. I played it wrong by assuming too much and will adjust future scenes. I am not the best RPer but I shall do my best to uphold the guidelines and help increase the other player's experiences here while I still can.
Longevitus