Like all good things, success does'nt come easy. PotM has a bit of a steep learning curve, which makes it very rewarding if you're able to keep your character alive throughout dangerous adventures. So team up with others in similar situations, make friends (and enemies!) and hae a good time.
If you're bothered by lesbians or people playing mostly to indulge their sexual fantasies, make some kind of puritan witchhunter, hunt them down and burn those deviants at the stake!